I did with Aby in NYC. I took the Bolt bus up on Friday night and spent the weekend relaxing, dancing, shopping, strolling, eating loads of kick ass Italian food, and soaking up what was some brilliant fall weather in the city.
Aby lives right by the park, so of course there was some serious strolling happening on Halloween morning.

After brunch at the Boat House in Central Park, a skateboarding hungover Spider man bummed a cigarette. I was amused.

Halloween night we joined a
French Tuesdays costume party in the Russian Tea Room. We hadn't planned on attending a party that required full costumes, but our previous plans were a bust and one of Aby's friends came through with some tickets to the sold-out event at... 7:45pm. We had to arrive in costume by 8:30 to get the tickets, and made a made scramble to pull together three decent costumes from Aby's closet. I think we were rather successful. I LOVED my nerd costume.

I kinda think the glasses make me look like my Grandpa K. I did the nerd smile all night. I couldn't help it.
I had never been to a full-out costume party before and it was so much fun! I wish I had better photos of the actual party because the decorations were amazing, but my flash isn't that great (or maybe I just don't know how to use it properly).
French Tuesdays had done a Heaven and Hell themed party. One ballroom was decked out in white with a mix of 80's and 90's rock hits, and the other floor was Hell with techno and more current hits. You were assigned to one ballroom or another when you first arrived and you had to perform and good or a naughty deed (kiss a stranger, take a photo with a stranger, tell your friend you love them, etc.) to earn admitance to the other ballroom. It kept things interesting.
Sunday we took it slow and met up with Alanna for a late dinner. I hadn't seen her since I left Bangkok and it was great to catch-up.
My only real "tourist" request for the weekend was that we make it up to the top of the Empire State Building. I had it on good authority from Terry McKay that "The Empire State Building is the closest thing to heaven in this city. "
The views were certainly lovely, but you had to pass through several stages of kitchy tourist-trap frustrations to get up there first. My advice: go early and budget several hours. Despite it's large staff and a clearly marked lines, they do a crappy job of moving people up to the top (it took us 2.5 hours RT and it was not crowded). I was so glad we went on a week day. There was a large group of Spanish tourist in front of us that stopped every 2 feet to ask questions, and after 30 minutes Aby was ready to lay out que etiquette for them Niomi Campbell style.
Terry: What makes life so difficult?
Nickie: People.
I spent the two hour assent learning some trivia. Did you know that the top observation deck was built as a landing pad for European blimps? The idea was that people could be ferried right into the heart of the city by airship. Crazy winds at 205 floors up prevented this from ever happening. You would think that the architects would know something about altitude and winds.
Thanks for a wonderful visit Aby!